It’s nice to see colorfully packaged gifts in different shapes and sizes underneath the Christmas tree. And what kid can contain his or her eagerness to dive into the presents? But each year, I do struggle with creating an exciting and fun atmosphere where we beam at our daughter as she rips off gift wrapping while at the same time, find a way to reinforce gratitude and appreciation for what she has.
One trad
ition we have in our house is to place under the tree a letter from a Christmas elf that contains money. The note explains that the money is for our
daughter to donate to a worthy organization or cause that she feels is important. When she was younger, we helped her think through her choices and identify a reputable group. Her selections have included ”adopting” an endangered harbor seal through the World Wildlife Fund to supporting a dog rehabilitation and rescue facility called Best Friends Animal Society. Now that she is a bit older, she knows that the letter is really written by mom and not an elf, but nonetheless, she looks for the letter every year. Christmas in our home wouldn’t be Christmas without it. How do you help your kids balance giving and getting?
© YesKidzCan!, 2010





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